Thursday, 21 April 2011

Fast Cars and Slow Women



If variety is the spice of life then our trip to Malaysia was as spicy as it comes: from Formula One to tranquil beaches, from 5 star hotels to street food, from hot sunshine to pouring rain, from crazy markets to peaceful temples, it was a delicious feast of new and interesting experiences.


Our trips are a constant reminder to me of how fascinating the world is. Although this was not my first visit to Asia, I am still in awe of the many differences to the UK. We started in Kuala Lumpur, planned so we could go to the Grand Prix: Husband is a huge F1 fan. I am a fan too but on a rather smaller scale (I tend to be a total girl in my driver choices: Jenson for being hot and Vettel for being lovely!) but I could not fail to be impressed by the occasion. The sheer excitement of being surrounded by people - or should I say men - who were so passionate about the invent was infectious. And the noise - oh so ‘Alpha Male’.



In between watching fast cars we explored the city, taking in local markets (we picked up a few rather nice 'designer' pieces), sampled local food, and looked in amazement at the Petronas Twin Towers.



We then took the train to Penang. The landscape in Penang is completely different: the architecture is colonial and there is a larger Chinese influence; the temples were breathtaking and so wonderfully calming.



Look how zen I look!

Our next and final stop was Langkawi. We got the ferry from Penang along with 300 back packers - I think we were the only people over 20 (although we didn't see any of these 'youngsters' once we were on the island). We had six nights there so it was a wonderful opportunity to combine sightseeing with some serious relaxing.

We trekked - okay, not quite. But there were 450 steps - to see a gorgeous waterfall, chatting to monkeys on route; we took the steepest and longest cable car in the world - which is quite scary for someone who is afraid of heights (no, not sure why I went in it either!); we had picture postcard moments on tranquil deserted beaches; and we saw some incredibly colourful wildlife.

So worth the trekking!

Yeah...what you looking at?

Yup...STEEP. But wow the views were amazing.

It's a hard life...

Hello!

As for the culinary part of our trip it deserves its own special mention. Let's just say foodie husband was impressed. We sampled blue rice, fish head curry, 'smelly' durian fruit, chose 'our' fish from fish tanks (yes, there was some guilt as 'my' crab was taken away but not enough to stop me from eating it), sampled street food, and marvelled at the colours and flavours of exotic fruits.


Street food madness in Kuala Lumpur

The VERY smelly durian fruit being prepared.

This was the choice at a seafood restaurant in Penang...!

Sorry...

And the rather large cherry on my gorgeous travelling cake was an upgrade to Business Class on the way home (have no idea why - we didn't even ask). And not just any old Business Class either but with the leader of the premiere division, Emirates. (Thank you Emirates. I love you and would always be happy to write amazing reviews in exchange for upgrades.) I did my best to adopt my cool 'yeah I always travel Business Class' persona, rather than skipping and squealing like an over excited puppy (and panicking about whether I had the right look going on and wondering if it would be showing my cattle class roots if I pulled out my Marian Keyes...) But come on. OH. MY. GOD.

I know....!
I was planning to sleep for the journey but there were so many cool things to play with and I couldn't bear the thought of missing out. (Yeah, totally cool me.) I'm not sure what my favourite part was: the amount of space (I reckon at least six Ryan Air seats worth); the fact my seat turned into a full on lie down bed (complete with mattress and massage function); the 5 star standard food, drink and service, including having my table set for me; the on board bar with champagne and canapes; the clean toilets (so clean I didn't have to hover!); George Clooney in front of me - yeah okay, you got me, he was in a film. But the way the experience was panning out, it so could have been. Sorry getting carried away. But you get my drift. Lush. Lush. Lush. It was the perfect end to a magical adventure.

Many of you ask me how I manage these trips. The simple answer is Husband. He makes it so easy for me - he plans and takes care of everything. I basically focus on turning up. And then I use pacing, relaxation, hypnotherapy, affirmations and glorious, glorious sleep.

This trip was a big deal for me, it was a psychological and physical milestone. The last time we did long haul was two and a half years ago - to Argentina - and it took me about four months to recover. Understandably this made me nervous about travelling long distance, which is why we have stayed 'local' in the last couple of years. But this time I KNOW I will not need this recovery time; my body is so much stronger and fitter than it was then. (Not to say I won't be having some quality time with my sofa for the next couple of days to recharge.)

And I am not embarrassed to say that I am crying as I write this. It is another baby step on the recovery road - one which I thoroughly enjoyed taking. Anyway, enough of this soppiness. Where next Husband? If only we could afford to go Business Class with Emirates we could do long haul EVERY TIME.

8 comments:

  1. Hi Karen. I loved your travelogue and love that your feeling so good these days. Your pictures were fabulous. I felt like I was these with you. Thanks so much.

    My new news is that I've started a blog at Psychology Today. I'll put in the link if you want to check it out. My last post was on the haiku poet, Issa:

    http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/turning-straw-gold

    Welcome home!
    Toni

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  2. Glad you had a great time Karen, although I'm still sick with jealousy at you going to the GP. Good choice in driver though, Jenson is my main man too, although probably for different reasons....but only just!

    It's funny because I had a bit of an emotional milestone myself yesterday. It's a year since I did the LP, and something made me look back and realise just how far I had come. I'm sure it was the same for you looking back now at how you were after Argentina, and I'm sure you'll be thinking like me... just imagine where you could be in the next 2 years!

    Great blog, keep at it :) x

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  3. Sounds like it was a blast.

    Don't know why anyone eats durian though - bland taste, and that smell!

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  4. Hey lovely people thank you for the comments.

    Toni, that is great news. I was aware you had written for Psychology Today over the last few weeks (I have read two pieces - both excellent!) but I didn't realise it was a regular gig. That's a fantastic achievement.

    Hey Brandt. Jenson is so the main man! (Although, I fear his new appearance in the Head and Shoulders advert may put me off him! So not a sexy product.)

    And that is a fantastic milestone to celebrate - snowboarding is looking more and more achievable! I am so HAPPY for you. I hope you are enjoying your wellness as much as I am!

    Oh Evan, it was a total blast. And yes, I only managed one spoonful of durian! I will try anything but some things don't make it very far and I'm afraid this was one of them. And my God that smell is quite incredible. Hope things are well with you.

    Lots of love to you all...xx

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  5. Hi Karen,

    Since when have you known me to be speechless? :-O

    Truely amazing!! (have you got a fruiting money tree?) I'm just not worthy in this company! ;-)

    Can very much relate to the cfs journey though, you do have to pinch yourself at times! & never knowing whether to rejoice at the progress or to cry at the time that was lost! I'm settling for the former at present :-)

    Power to your typing figures! x

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  6. Wow..that sounds such a fantastic trip for you Karen. On one hand I feel envious, the other so glad that you share your experiences, it fills me with hope...

    ...and a desire to share your husband!! :D xxx

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  7. That is so wonderful. Thank you so much for sharing. I am truely happy for you.

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  8. Thank you so much for the comments my lovelies.

    I'm sure there are moments when you are quiet Rog?!

    I don't have a money tree but I do have a husband tree...maybe you should get yourself a husband! ;-)

    I know how lucky we are; we are not loaded but we are not on the breadline that's for sure. And we definitely prioritise travelling - we don't run a car or have a big house (or children!) We would rather spend our money on adventures. And husband is very savvy at finding good deals for flights and invariably we are on Ryan Air with our hand luggage only! I am clearly very lucky but I'm maybe not as much of a Princess as you think - well, not quite!

    It's great to hear you're doing so well too. It's interesting that you say you grieve for the time you have lost - I don't really think about that. Not sure why. I get annoyed on a daily basis when I can't just do what I want but never about the past. Bizarre.

    Oh Julia. You are so funny. I will speak to Husband and see if he is up for it!

    The trips give me hope too. I think if my body can handle this it is getting stronger and it's another step forward. We got back Wednesday night and although I have been taking it easy I haven't crashed or been plastered to the sofa. It is definitely progress.

    I hope things are okay with you and I'll get back to you about husband sharing!

    Hey Miss Baffled. Thank you for such a lovely message. It's so sweet of you to be so pleased for me.

    Lots of love to you all...xx

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